Homework Tips for Parents: How to Make It Less Painful

Homework Tips for Parents: How to Make It Less Painful

Though we know the importance of skill practice through homework, it is difficult for parents and children alike to “get excited” about homework.   Outside obligations, extracurricular activities, or frustrations over the material tend to make doing homework a chore.   Luckily, there are some ways to make it easier on everyone.  One of the most important tips is to establish homework as a daily family routine.  Regardless of whether it is immediately after school or when you arrive home from work, settle your child down for “homework time” before other tasks or activities.  Select a place that is quiet, comfortable, and free from distraction.  Discuss the assignment with your child to ensure she knows what is expected and then allow some independent time.  Answer questions as they arise, but do not do the work for your child; instead reteach if necessary and encourage your child to problem solve.  It will also be helpful to model focused learning while your child works on homework.  Read a favorite novel or write in your journal as these types of activities will show your child that learning continues throughout our lives.  By making time for homework through routine in a quiet and supportive environment, you will show your child that her learning and progress is important to you, and homework won’t be such a struggle.